I was asked the other day by someone, ‘Why don’t you hang with the girls more…’
I answered very honestly,
“I do hang, as much as I want to.”
You see I have never been much of a hanger,
I love my friends,
But I have no real desire to be with them all the time,
Or talk to them all day,
That is not conducive to who I am,
It is much the same way with all my relationships,
I love the time I spend with people,
But if it is necessary for me to call you everyday,
Hangout with you every week,
Or go away on trips with you,
I am not real good at that,
Not my thing,
My mama raised me to take care of me and home first,
And let every other thing line up after that,
And that is how I love my life,
When my kids were young,
Most of what we did was family things,
And now that it is just the two of us,
There is nothing that I love more than spending time with my man,
Week nights me in my corner,
Him in has,
And now that we have mini laptops,
We can both do our nerd things,
Together,
On Saturday mornings,
We do separate things,
Then we do our late lunches,
And Sundays after church,
We just chill.
That is not to say that I don’t love,
Going out occasionally with the girls,
Giggling it up,
But that is not my primary thing…
I love my family life,
And another thing,
Very rarely am I in any messy stuff,
Cause I just don’t get involved like that,
BE THE PEACE YOU SEEK!
Angelia
www.angeliavmenchan.com
3 comments:
I needed this! I rarely have the need to be out at every event that someone invites me to or be on the phone every night with somebody! If I'm not doing anything for the kids, sometimes I would prefer doing stuff with just me, myself and I!
No problem Lena,
it seems I am on a mission to say things that we think about...for some reason, our female friends tend to think we don't love em if we don't spend a lot of time with them...we are just real busy and we need to spend as much time as we can with those CLOSEST to us, life is really short...
Blessings!
angelia
That's how life is supposed to be :-)
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