Angelia Vernon Menchan

Angelia Vernon Menchan is an author, publisher and public speaker who owns two publishing companies, MAMM Productions and Honorable Menchan Media. Mrs. Menchan is also a Budget Officer and former Job Corps Counselor. To date she has published twenty-three books of her own work, both fiction and non-fiction and more than eighty ebook novellas on You can access her bibliography on search words: Angelia Vernon Menchan

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Thursday, December 3, 2009


Who gets to decide what a woman should do when it is discovered her husband has been philandering~
Is it her husband, is it her girls, her family, her friends,
Or in the case of someone famous is it the media or women’s groups~
As a woman and a wife I am going to have to say neither,
The only people involved in a marriage is that man, that woman, their children,
And hopefully the God they answer to,
And before anyone says, ‘If they had God it wouldn’t have happened…’
Come on people we all know that is not true,
Those who believe are constant works in progress,
Always trying to do better, be better and falling short~
And I know people don’t like hearing this,
But all sins are created equal,
If you cheated on your payroll, fudged on your taxes, stole something,
Lied on your neighbors, hated in your heart, etc. your sins are just as bad,
As the cheater or philanderer,
I know we like to qualify sins,
But alas we don’t get to,
Now don’t think for one moment I am condoning cheating,
Heck to the NAW~
What I am saying and I stand behind this fervently,
Is that what goes on with a man and a woman in a marriage,
Is their business and not one of us, no not one…
Gets to decide who should stay married,
Who should get divorced or any such thing,
Because you know what,
At the end of any given day,
It just ain’t our business~
No more than any of what we have done is anyone else’s,



Tee C. Royal said...

Amen! I've been dodging all the articles, television and any conversations having to do with this latest "scandal". It is NOT my business...


Angelia Vernon Menchan said...

I am telling you, we love other folks mess, guess it keeps us from dealing with our own~ xoxo

Shelia said...

Exactly Angelia. Because if truth be told, nobody actually knows what they will do until they are put in the situation.

Also, like I told my friend earlier this week, I got too much stuff going on to be worried about Tiger's mess. Tiger ain't worried about my business so why should I be dipping in his business.

Angelia Vernon Menchan said...

That is it Sister Shelia,
please who cares who is zooming the end of the day Tiger is still going to be Tiger and his life will be his life...same as ours...


'Cilla said...

I never understood the fascination with the NEED to know every cotton picking thing celebraties (sp) do, say, wear, eat, go, etc... I got Man-child problems to solve UGGGGG :-0

Another Great Post Angelia

Angelia Vernon Menchan said...

Sister 'Cilla,
I think it's transference, much like loving grubby talk shows. Folk just want to know someone's mess is messier than their mess...perhaps~