Angelia Vernon Menchan

Angelia Vernon Menchan is an author, publisher and public speaker who owns two publishing companies, MAMM Productions and Honorable Menchan Media. Mrs. Menchan is also a Budget Officer and former Job Corps Counselor. To date she has published twenty-three books of her own work, both fiction and non-fiction and more than eighty ebook novellas on amazon.com. You can access her bibliography on www.amazon.com search words: Angelia Vernon Menchan




Contact information:
Website: http://acvermen.blogspot.com
Email: acvermen@yahoo.com
Phone numbers: 904 714 2272 904 303 2679

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

The love blog...

‘Ms. Angelia how do you know when someone loves you…”
‘Honey what do you mean?’ Lawd I am not trying to talk about this with this child, today…
‘Well I mean how do you really know?”
‘Okay, here goes, one of the easiest way to tell is how a person treats you, when there is no agenda…they don’t want or need anything from you…they just love you…’
‘Or what they say to people about you when they don’t know you are listening.’
‘Sometimes you can even tell by the way they are looking at you, when they don’t know you see them looking…’
Now let me tell you some things I don’t want you to confuse for love…
Anytime anyone starts a sentence with, ‘If you loved me the way I love you…’
That’s manipulation, not love…
Also an “Ooh baby I love you…” right when your legs are wrapped around someone…
Might be love, if it was already love…
But probably ain’t if ‘love’ had never been mentioned before…
Now of course, you have to know this…
There is no such thing as ‘making someone love you’ or ‘once I have his baby, he will have to love me’…
And the biggest thing is once you are about loving yourself…
It is amazing how much love…you will generate…
‘Cause you know how when someone smiles because you are smiling…
Love can be just like that, people love to be around loving people…and when you heap love on yourself…you have more love to pour on others…and please don’t think sex can do the work of love…cause it ain’t qualified…
‘Yes ma’am…I love you Ms. A.’
‘I love you too, baby…’

Mentoring is not for the faint of heart…
Let me tell you…
acVernon Menchan

11 comments:

Gwyneth Bolton said...

Oh, I'm gonna have to print this out and share it with the young heads (and some of the old heads too, truth be told, LOL).

Gwyneth

Ramblings...acVernon Menchan said...

Use me sis..smiles

Love and Blessings...

angelia

Yasmin said...

Grandma Nora must be talking to you today...xoxo

Ramblings...acVernon Menchan said...

Girl don't you know it...and I am listening...

Love you...
angelia

JC Martin said...

Speak the truth honey. If you don't love yourself, how will you know that someone else truly loves you? You won't...

Ramblings...acVernon Menchan said...

Yup..yup

angelia

Shai said...

Great post. I love reading your posts. I have to print this one out.

Ramblings...acVernon Menchan said...

Thanks Shai...

I have missed u girl...

angelia

Anonymous said...

OMG, Menchan. If you can't print it and publish it in a book, bottle it and sell it!

Can I pass it on?

Ramblings...acVernon Menchan said...

Minnie247

Please Share it, as i told Gwyneth use me...that's my mission(ary)

Love and Blessings

angelia

Anonymous said...

yo.. funny post )